​Recommended Books By Chapter
Author’s Note: The descriptions of the books have been edited by me but come primarily from Amazon book reviews. Several of these recommended books are referred to in multiple chapters.
Chapter 1: Building Character
​Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking, Susan Cain
In Quiet, Cain argues that we dramatically undervalue introverts and shows how much we lose in doing so. She charts the rise of the “Extrovert Ideal” throughout the 20th century and explores how deeply it has come to permeate our culture.
The Energy Bus: 10 Rules to Fuel Your Life, Work, and Team with Positive Energy, Jon Gordon
The Energy Bus takes readers on an enlightening and inspiring ride that reveals 10 secrets for approaching life and work with positive and forward thinking that leads to true accomplishment at work and at home.
Originals: How Non-Conformists Move the World, Adam Grant
In Originals, Grant addresses the challenge of improving the world from the perspective of becoming original: choosing to champion novel ideas and values that go against the grain, battle conformity, and buck outdated traditions. How can we originate new ideas, policies, and practices without risking it all?
It’s Better Than It Looks: Reasons for Optimism in an Age of Fear, Gregg Easterbrook
This book looks at current conditions compared to the past and concludes that life is much better now than in the past. It’s better in almost every way— we live longer, are more affluent, are less subject to violence, and are more democratic. Along the way, Easterbrook acknowledges that there are plenty of problems to overcome and threats to avoid. He argues that the fixes are available, though nothing in life is simple.
Chapter 2: Relationship with Ourselves
Positive Intelligence: Why Only 20% of Teams and Individuals Achieve Their True Potential and How You Can Achieve Yours, Shirzad Chamine
Chamine reveals how to achieve one’s true potential for both professional success and personal fulfillment. His groundbreaking research exposes 10 well-disguised mental “Saboteurs.” Executives in his Stanford lectures conclude that these Saboteurs cause “significant harm” to achieving their full potential. With Positive Intelligence, the secret to defeating these internal foes can be learned. Note: This book is also referred to in chapter 9.
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change, Stephen Covey
Covey sets forth a holistic, integrated, principle-centered approach to solving personal and professional problems. With penetrating insights and pointed anecdotes, he reveals a step-by-step pathway for living with fairness, integrity, service, and human dignity—principles that give us the security to adapt to change and the wisdom and power to take advantage of the opportunities that change creates. Note: This book is also referred to in chapters 3 and 10.
David and Goliath: Underdogs, Misfits, and the Art of Battling Giants, Malcolm Gladwell
Gladwell challenges our concepts of “advantage” and “disadvantage” and shows how players labeled “underdog” use that status to their advantage and prevail. He also shows how certain academic “advantages,” such as getting into an Ivy League school, have downsides, in that being a “big fish in a small pond” at a less-prestigious school can lead to greater confidence and a better chance of success in later life. Gladwell also promotes the idea of a “desirable difficulty,” such as dyslexia, a learning disability, that may force those who have it to develop better listening and creative problem-solving skills.
Good Morning, I Love You: Mindfulness and Self-Compassion Practices to Rewire Your Brain for Calm, Clarity, and Joy, Shauna Shapiro, PhD
Good Morning, I Love You brings alive the brain science behind why we feel the way we do—about ourselves, each other, and the world—and explains why we get stuck in thinking that doesn’t serve us. We are hardwired to be self-critical and negative, and this negativity is constantly undermining our experience of life. In lively, short chapters laced with science, wisdom, and story, Shapiro, one of the leading scientists studying the effects of mindfulness on the brain, shows us that acting with kindness and compassion toward ourselves is the key.
Thrive: The Third Metric to Redefining Success and Creating a Life of Well-Being, Wisdom, and Wonder, Arianna Huffington
In Thrive, Huffington talks candidly about her own challenges with managing time and balancing business with family life. She makes an impassioned case for the need to go beyond the two traditional metrics of success—money and power—to redefine what it means to be successful in today’s world. The third metric Huffington calls for includes our well-being, our ability to draw on our intuition and inner wisdom, our sense of wonder, and our capacity for compassion and giving. Drawing on the latest research and findings in the fields of psychology, sports, sleep, and physiology, Thrive illuminates the profound and transformative effects of meditation, mindfulness, unplugging, and giving.
​Books about Aging Well and Retirement
Successful Aging: A Neuroscientist Explores the Power and Potential of Our Lives, Daniel Levitin, PhD
Levitin looks at the science behind what we all can learn from those who age joyously, as well as how to adapt our culture to take full advantage of older people’s wisdom and experience. Using research from developmental neuroscience and the psychology of individual differences, Levitin reveals resilience strategies and practical, cognitive-enhancing tricks everyone should use as they age.
Younger Next Year: Live Strong, Fit, Sexy, and Smart—Until You’re 80 and Beyond, Chris Crowley and Henry Lodge, MD
Cowritten by one of the country’s most prominent internists, Dr. Henry “Harry” Lodge, and his star patient, the 73-year-old Chris Crowley, this book shows us how to turn back our biological clocks—how to put off 70 percent of the usual problems of aging (weakness, sore joints, poor balance) and eliminate 50 percent of serious illness and injury. The key to the program is found in Harry’s Rules: Exercise six days a week. Don’t eat crap. Connect and commit to others. There are seven rules based on the latest findings in cell physiology, evolutionary biology, anthropology, and experimental psychology. Dr. Lodge explains how and why they work, and Crowley, who is living proof of their effectiveness, gives the just-as-essential motivation.
Ageless Soul: The Lifelong Journey toward Meaning and Joy, Thomas Moore
Moore teaches readers how to embrace the richness of experience and how to take life on, accept invitations to new vitality, and feel fulfilled as they get older. Moore reveals a fresh, uplifting, and inspiring path toward aging, one that need not be feared but instead embraced and cherished. In Moore’s view, aging is the process of becoming a more distinctive, complex, fulfilled, loving, and connected person. He argues for a new vision of aging: as a dramatic series of initiations rather than a diminishing experience, one that each of us has the tools—experience, maturity, fulfillment—to live out. Note: This book is also referred to in chapters 9 and 13.
The Blue Zones: Lessons for Living Longer from the People Who’ve Lived the Longest, Dan Buettner
In The Blue Zones, longevity expert Dan Buettner has blended his lifestyle formula with the latest longevity research to inspire lasting behavioral change and add years to your life. Buettner draws from his research on extraordinarily long-lived communities—Blue Zones—around the globe to highlight their lifestyles, diets, outlooks, and stress-coping practices. A long, healthy life is no accident. It begins with good genes, but it also depends on good habits. If you adopt the proper lifestyle, experts say you may live up to a decade longer. The recipe for longevity, Buettner has found, is deeply intertwined with community, lifestyle, and spirituality.
Repacking Your Bags: Lighten Your Load for the Rest of Your Life, Richard Leider and David Shapiro
This book helps you repack your four critical “bags” (place, relationship, work, and purpose); identify your gifts, passions, and values; and plan your journey, no matter where you are in life. People everywhere feel overwhelmed today, weighed down by countless responsibilities and buffeted by never-ending changes in their personal and professional lives. Repacking Your Bags shows readers how to climb out from under these burdens and find the fulfillment that is missing in their lives. In this wise and practical guide, Leider and Shapiro help you weigh all that you’re carrying, leverage what helps you live well, and let go of those burdens that merely weigh you down.
Refire! Don’t Retire: Make the Rest of Your Life the Best of Your Life, Ken Blanchard and Morton Shaevitz
Refire! Don’t Retire asks readers the all-important question: as you look at the years ahead, what can you do to make them satisfying and meaningful? Blanchard and Shaevitz point out that some people see their later years as a time to endure rather than an exciting opportunity. Both research and common sense confirm that people who embrace these years with energy and gusto—rather than withdrawing and waiting for things to happen—consistently make the rest of their lives the best of their lives. Readers will find humor, practical information, and profound wisdom in Refire! Don’t Retire. Best of all, they will be inspired to make all the years ahead truly worth living.
How to Retire Happy, Wild, and Free: Retirement Wisdom That You Won’t Get from Your Financial Advisor, Ernie Zelinski
How to Retire Happy, Wild, and Free helps readers create an active, satisfying, and happy retirement in such a way that they don’t need a million dollars to retire. Zelinski explains that the key to achieving an active and satisfying retirement involves much more than having adequate financial resources; it also encompasses all other aspects of life—leisure activities, creative pursuits, physical well-being, mental well-being, and solid social support. What sets this retirement book apart from all the others is its holistic approach to the fears, hopes, and dreams people have about retirement.
Chapter 3: Managing Ourselves
Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less, Greg McKeown
McKeown describes a disciplined, systematic approach for determining where our highest point of contribution lies, then making the execution of those things almost effortless. The way of the Essentialist is the path to being in control of our own choices. It is a path to new levels of success and meaning. McKeown makes a compelling case for achieving more by doing less. He reminds us that clarity of focus and the ability to say no are both within our grasp.
Outliers: The Story of Success, Malcolm Gladwell
Gladwell takes us on an intellectual journey through the world of “outliers”—the best and the brightest, the most famous and the most successful. He asks the question: what makes high-achievers different? His answer is that we pay too much attention to what successful people are like and too little attention to where they are from: that is, their culture, their family, their generation, and the idiosyncratic experiences of their upbringing.
The Tipping Point: How Little Things Can Make a Big Difference, Malcolm Gladwell
Gladwell brilliantly explores and illuminates the tipping-point phenomenon, which is changing how people worldwide think about selling products and disseminating ideas. The tipping point is that magic moment when an idea, trend, or social behavior crosses a threshold, tips, and spreads like wildfire. Just as a single sick person can start an epidemic of the flu, so too can a small but precisely targeted push cause a fashion trend, the popularity of a new product, or a drop in the crime rate.
Chapter 4: Money
Your Money or Your Life
9 Steps to Transforming Your Relationship with Money and Achieving Financial Independence, Vicki Robin and Joe Dominguez Robin and Dominguez offer a nine-step program for living a more meaningful life, showing readers how to get out of debt, save money, reorder financial priorities, resolve inner conflicts, save the planet, and convert problems into opportunities.
Inherited Wealth: Opportunities and Dilemmas, John Levy
Filled with wisdom and insights for families, inheritors, and their advisors, Inherited Wealth explores a broad range of issues that often arise through the transmission of wealth within a family—and then responds to these in a healing and transformative way. Whether you are leaving an inheritance, are receiving one, or are a professional working with a family, this book identifies the major challenges and provides guidance for working through them. Ultimately, this book is about living an enriched life—one that includes personal and spiritual growth, contribution, and legacy. Note: This book is also referred to in chapter 14.
Voluntary Simplicity: Toward a Way of Life That Is Outwardly Simple, Inwardly Rich, Duane Elgin
Voluntary Simplicity is not a book about living in poverty; it is a book about living with balance. Elgin illuminates the changes that an increasing number of Americans are making in their everyday lives, adjustments in day-to-day living that are an active, positive response to the complex dilemmas of our time. By embracing the tenets of voluntary simplicity—frugal consumption, ecological awareness, and personal growth—people can change their lives and, in the process, save our planet.
The Courage to Be Rich: Creating a Life of Material and Spiritual Abundance, Suze Orman
Orman explains what it means to turn toward your money and to turn some of your money toward others. Ultimately, it means taking the courageous steps necessary to attain material and spiritual wealth. Practical, spiritual, and above all, soundly financial, The Courage to Be Rich is a book for today’s challenging times.
More Money Than God: Living a Rich Life without Losing Your Soul, Steven Leder
Leder uses his experience as a religious leader and spiritual counselor to tackle money issues: keeping money from being a focal point, differentiating wants and needs, living morally while seeking the comfort that money brings, and teaching children about values involving money.
Think, Act, and Invest Like Warren Buffett: The Winning Strategy to Help You Achieve Your Financial and Life Goals, Larry Swedroe
This book provides a solid, sensible investing approach based on Buffett’s advice regarding investment strategies. Swedroe argues that simple is better, that adopting basic investing principles always increases an investor’s chance of success, and that Buffett is an excellent model for such investing.
Charles Schwab’s New Guide to Financial Independence: Practical Solutions for Busy People, Charles Schwab
Schwab distills his 40-plus years of accumulated wisdom and explains how to define and set investment goals; prepare an investment plan, put the plan into action, and update the plan regularly; plan for your children’s education or your retirement; cope effectively with the ups and downs of the market; and make sure you’ll have enough for a comfortable retirement.
Chapter 5: Emotions
Emotional Equations: Simple Truths for Creating Happiness and Success, Chip Conley
Using brilliantly simple logic that illuminates the universal truths in common emotional challenges, Emotional Equations offers a way to identify the elements in our lives that we can change, those we can’t, and how to better understand our emotions so they can help us rather than hurt us.
Happier: Learn the Secrets to Daily Joy and Lasting Fulfillment, Tal Ben-Shahar
In Happier, Professor Ben-Shahar brings the ideas of the Ivory Tower to Main Street, distilling the lessons and exercises from his course into a trove of practical wisdom. Grounded in the Positive Psychology movement and based on years of researching the works of scientists, academics, and philosophers, Happier emphasizes the importance of pursuing a life of both pleasure and meaning. Lessons, exercises, and “Happiness Boosters” cover self-esteem, empathy, friendship, love, achievement, creativity, spirituality, and humor.
30 Lessons for Loving: Advice from the Wisest Americans on Love, Relationships, and Marriage, Karl Pillemer
Drawing on interviews with 700 long-married elders, Pillemer’s 30 Lessons for Loving delivers timeless wisdom from a wide range of voices on everything from choosing “the one” to dealing with in-laws, money, children, and sex. Whether readers are searching for the right partner or working to keep the spark alive, 30 Lessons for Loving illuminates the path to lifelong, fulfilling relationships.
Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples, Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt
Hendrix and Hunt present the relationship skills that have already helped hundreds of thousands of couples replace confrontation and criticism with a healing process of mutual growth and support. This practical guide describes the revolutionary technique of Imago Relationship Therapy, which combines a number of disciplines—including the behavioral sciences, depth psychology, cognitive therapy, and Gestalt therapy, among others—to create a program to resolve conflict and renew communication and passion.
Forgive for Good: A Proven Prescription for Health and Happiness, Frederic Luskin
Based on scientific research, this groundbreaking study from the frontiers of psychology and medicine offers startling new insight into the healing powers and medical benefits of forgiveness. Through vivid examples, Dr. Luskin offers a proven nine-step forgiveness method that makes it possible to move beyond being a victim to a life of improved health and contentment.
Walking Each Other Home: Conversations on Loving and Dying, Ram Dass and Mirabai Bush
Walking Each Other Home was written to enlighten and engage readers on the spiritual opportunities within the dying process. Ram Dass and Mirabai Bush generously share intimate personal experiences and timeless practices, told with courage, humor, and heart, gently exploring every aspect of this journey. The book includes guidelines for being a “loving rock” for the dying, and how to grieve fully and authentically, transform a fear of death, leave a spiritual legacy, create a sacred space for dying, and much more.
A Year to Live: How to Live This Year As If It Were Your Last, Stephen Levine
Levine, author of the perennial bestseller Who Dies? teaches us how to live each moment, each hour, each day mindfully—as if it were all that was left. Most of us go to extraordinary lengths to ignore, laugh off, or deny the fact that we are going to die, but preparing for death is one of the most rational and rewarding acts of a lifetime. It is an exercise that allows us to deal with unfinished business and enter into a new and vibrant relationship with life. Levine provides us with a yearlong program of intensely practical strategies and powerful guided meditations to help with this work so that whenever the ultimate moment does arrive for each of us, we will not feel that it has come too soon.
Chapter 6: Spirituality and Religion
A Religion of One’s Own: A Guide to Creating a Personal Spirituality in a Secular World, Thomas Moore
In A Religion of One’s Own, best-selling author and former monk Thomas Moore explores the possibilities of creating a personal spiritual style, either inside or outside formal religion. He recounts the benefits of contemplative living that he learned during his 12 years as a monk but also the more original and imaginative spirituality that he later developed and embraced in his secular life. Moore shares stories of others who are creating their own path and weaves their experiences with the wisdom of philosophers, writers, and artists who have rejected materialism and infused their secular lives with transcendence.
Peace Is Every Step: The Path of Mindfulness in Everyday Life, Thich Nhat Hanh
The deceptively simple practices of Peace Is Every Step encourage readers to work for peace in the world as they continue to work on sustaining inner peace by turning the “mindless” into the mindful. In the rush of modern life, we tend to lose touch with the peace that is available in each moment.
The Spirituality of Welcoming: How to Transform Your Congregation into a Sacred Community, Ron Wolfson
Writing with humor, verve, and candor, Wolfson sets forth a renewed vision of synagogues as energetic sacred communities—and outlines how you can transform your congregation into an inviting center of vibrant relationships and personal spiritual rejuvenation. This is a practical guide for envisioning—and transforming—your congregation into one of welcoming, learning, and healing.
Chapter 8: Purpose and Meaning
Ten Stupid Things Men Do to Mess Up Their Lives, Dr. Laura Schlessinger
In 10 vital, compelling chapters, Dr. Laura speaks her mind on chivalry, independence, ambition, strength, sex, matrimony, husbanding, parenting, boyishness, and machismo.
Man’s Search for Meaning, Viktor Frankl
Psychiatrist Viktor Frankl’s memoir has riveted generations of readers with its lessons for spiritual survival. Between 1942 and 1945, Frankl survived four different labor camps, including Auschwitz, while his parents, brother, and pregnant wife perished. Based on his own experience and the experiences of others he treated later in his practice, Frankl argues that we cannot avoid suffering, but we can choose how to cope with it, find meaning in it, and move forward with renewed purpose. Frankl’s theory holds that our primary drive in life is not pleasure, as Freud maintained, but the discovery and pursuit of what we personally find meaningful.
Designing Your Life: Build a Life That Works for You, Bill Burnett and Dave Evans
Whether you’re 20, 40, 60, or older, Burnett and Evans use their expertise to help you work through what you want—and how to get it. Their simple method will teach you how to use basic design tools to create a life that will work for you. Using real-life stories and proven techniques like reframing, prototyping, and mind-mapping, you will learn how to build your way forward, step by positive step, to a life that’s better by a design of your own making.
Long Journey Home: A Guide to Your Search for the Meaning of Life, Os Guinness
This book is a fine distillation of wisdom applied to the “big questions” of life’s meaning and purpose. Rich in stories and profoundly personal as well as practical, it explores the great philosophies of life. It charts the road toward meaning taken by countless thoughtful seekers over the centuries.
Living a Life That Matters, Harold Kushner
In this inspiring book, Kushner addresses our craving for knowing that our lives and choices mean something. We sometimes confuse power, wealth, and fame with true achievement. We need to think of ourselves as good people and are troubled when we compromise our integrity to be successful and important. Rabbi Kushner suggests that the path to a genuinely successful and significant life lies in friendship, family, acts of generosity, and self-sacrifice. He describes how, in changing the life of even one person in a positive way, we make a difference in the world, give our lives meaning, and prove that we do, in fact, matter.
The New American Dream: Finding Lifestyle Freedom on the Road, K. Shawtree
After interviewing more than 25 couples from four different generations (Generation Z, Millennials, Generation X, and Baby Boomers), the author has distilled common strategies, lessons, and advice for creating a life of freedom on the open road. Here’s what the book offers: stories from travelers of all ages (with their secrets to success); steps to identify your personal goals and expectations for life on the road; lessons on how to travel as a family, as a couple, or solo; strategies and solutions for financing your adventure; tips on managing your relationship; tools for managing your money; lessons on things to avoid and things you must do; and more.
The Reinvention of Work: A New Vision of Livelihood for Our Time, Matthew Fox
In The Reinvention of Work, Fox brings together the work of Eastern and Western mystics, ancient, medieval, and modern, to propose a new paradigm for how we work and what we do.
Chapter 9: Relationships with Others
The Relationship Cure: A Five-Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships, John Gottman
In this book, Gottman, one of the country’s foremost relationship experts, presents a powerful, simple five-step program, based on 20 years of innovative research, for greatly improving all the relationships in your life—with spouses and lovers, children, siblings, and even colleagues at work. Packed with fascinating questionnaires and exercises developed in his therapy, The Relationship Cure offers a simple but profound program that will fundamentally transform the quality of all the relationships in your life.
How to Raise Successful People: Simple Lessons for Radical Results, Esther Wojcicki
The legendary teacher and mother shares her tried and tested methods for raising happy, healthy, successful children using TRICK: trust, respect, independence, collaboration, and kindness. Wojcicki’s methods are the opposite of helicopter parenting. How to Raise Successful People offers essential lessons for raising, educating, and managing people to their highest potential. Change your parenting, change the world.
Finding Our Fathers: The Unfinished Business of Manhood, Samuel Osherson
A seminal classic, Finding Our Fathers examines the hidden struggle faced by millions of men: how to reconcile their childhood images of their fathers as silent, stoic breadwinners with the life they want to live now—embracing two-career marriages, closer ties with their children, and greater emotional awareness. Osherson shows you how your “unfinished business” with your father affects your relationships with your spouse, children, friends, and bosses—and how it can lead to a profound sense of loneliness, vulnerability, and rage. Osherson shows how you can resolve the inner conflict of the father-son relationship and begin to develop a new sense of strength and purpose in your family life and career.
Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most, Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, and Sheila Heen
We attempt or avoid difficult conversations every day—whether dealing with an underperforming employee, disagreeing with a spouse, or negotiating with a client. Difficult Conversations provides a step-by-step approach to having those tough conversations with less stress and more success. You’ll learn how to decipher the underlying structure of every difficult conversation; start a conversation without defensiveness; listen for the meaning of what is not said; stay balanced in the face of attacks and accusations; and move from emotion to productive problem-solving.
You Just Don’t Understand: Women and Men in Conversation, Deborah Tannen
You Just Don’t Understand is the book that brought gender differences in ways of speaking to the forefront of public awareness. With a rare combination of scientific insight and delightful, humorous writing, Tannen shows why women and men can walk away from the same conversation with completely different impressions of what was said. Studded with lively and entertaining examples of actual conversations, this book gives you the tools to understand what went wrong—and find a common language to strengthen relationships at work and at home. A classic in the field of interpersonal relations, this book will change forever the way you approach conversations.
Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ, Daniel Goleman
Goleman’s brilliant report from the frontiers of psychology and neuroscience offers startling new insight into our “two minds”—the rational and the emotional—and how they together shape our destiny. Drawing on groundbreaking brain and behavioral research, Goleman shows the factors at work when people of high IQ flounder and those of modest IQ do surprisingly well. These factors, which include self-awareness, self-discipline, and empathy, add up to a different way of being smart—and they aren’t fixed at birth. Although shaped by childhood experiences, emotional intelligence can be nurtured and strengthened throughout adulthood—with immediate benefits to our health, relationships, and work.
How to Win Friends and Influence People, Dale Carnegie
Carnegie’s first book is a timeless bestseller packed with rock-solid advice that has carried thousands of now-famous people up the ladder of success in their business and personal lives. As relevant as ever, Carnegie’s principles endure and will help you achieve your maximum potential in the complex and competitive modern age. Learn the 6 ways to make people like you, the 12 ways to win people to your way of thinking, and the 9 ways to change people without arousing resentment.
Chapter 10: Leadership and Management
​On Becoming a Leader, Warren Bennis
Dubbed the “dean of leadership gurus” by Forbes magazine, Bennis remains the final word in modern leadership. This seminal work is a must-read for anyone who aspires to leadership excellence. Warren Bennis (1925–2014) was a pioneer in leadership studies, a scholar who advised presidents and business executives on how to become successful leaders. Bennis’s core belief is that leaders are not born—they are made. Providing essential and timeless insights for generations of readers, On Becoming a Leader delves into the qualities that define leadership, the people who exemplify it, and the strategies anyone can apply to achieve it.
As We Speak: How to Make Your Point and Have It Stick, Peter Meyers and Shann Nix
This is a practical and empowering guide to becoming a more effective, persuasive communicator. Whether you are speaking to a large audience, within a group, or in a one-on-one conversation, how you communicate ideas, as much as the ideas themselves, can determine success or failure. The book covers three core principles: Content: Construct a clear and lucid architecture of ideas that will lead your listener through a memorable emotional experience. Delivery: Use your voice and body to engage your audience and naturally support your message. State: Bring yourself into peak performance condition. How you feel when performing is the most frequently overlooked component of communication.
Peak: How Great Companies Get Their Mojo from Maslow, Chip Conley
Part memoir, part theory, and part application, Peak tells of Joie de Vivre’s remarkable transformation while providing real-world examples from other companies and showing how readers can bring about similar changes in their work and personal lives. Applying psychologist Abraham Maslow’s iconic hierarchy of needs, Conley explains how to understand the motivations of employees, customers, bosses, and investors and use that understanding to foster better relationships and build an enduring and thriving corporate culture.
The One Minute Manager, Kenneth Blanchard and Spencer Johnson
The One Minute Manager ranks as one of the most successful management books ever published. The strategies of one-minute management can save time and increase productivity, whether in business, at home, or even managing children. It covers three management techniques: One Minute Goal Setting, One Minute Praising, and One Minute Reprimands. Deceptively simple and measurably effective, applying these techniques can boost profits, productivity, and purpose.
Beyond Entrepreneurship: Turning Your Business into an Enduring Great Company, James Collins and William Lazier
This inspiring work provides entrepreneurs and other leaders with building blocks to help their companies and organizations sustain high performance, play a leadership role in their industries, and remain great for generations. The book includes real-world examples from Nike, L.L.Bean, Walmart, Federal Express (FedEx), and other success stories.
Made to Stick: Why Some Ideas Survive and Others Die, Chip Heath and Dan Heath
This book explains how some ideas influence their audience, making a mark on their memory for a long time and even spurring them to act, while others are forgotten, having hardly been heard. The authors of Made to Stick study the ideas that stick and explain their methods of adhesion. When marketing anything, keep these six concepts in mind if you want your message to stick: Simple, Unexpected, Concrete, Credible, and Emotional Stories; that spells SUCCESs.
Chapter 11: Charity, Philanthropy, and Service
Wealthy and Wise: How You and America Can Get the Most out of Your Giving, Claude Rosenberg Jr.
Citing an economy-boosting $80 billion per year potential in charitable funds, financial management expert Claude Rosenberg Jr. offers practical and tax-saving guidelines for philanthropists at every income level.
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Preparing Heirs: Five Steps to a Successful Transition of Family Wealth and Values, Roy Williams and Vic Preisser
Preparing Heirs offers clear, concise, well-organized, and easy-to-follow instructions that will enable you to evaluate your plan for transitioning family wealth. It can help prepare your heirs to be good stewards and thoughtful administrators of that wealth. Preparing Heirs discloses the findings from research into the legacies of 3,250 wealthy families. It reveals how they achieved and maintained family harmony and ensured the smooth transition of their wealth to well-adjusted heirs. The authors also warn of the many factors that cause most wealthy families to fail in their transition. The book can be used in conjunction with the services of qualified professionals such as attorneys and accountants.
Governance as Leadership: Reframing the Work of Nonprofit Boards, Richard Chait, William Ryan, and Barbara Taylor
Written by noted consultants and researchers attuned to the needs of practitioners, Governance as Leadership redefines nonprofit governance. It provides a powerful framework for a new covenant between trustees and executives: more macrogovernance in exchange for less micromanagement. Informed by theories that have transformed the practice of organizational leadership, this book sheds new light on the board’s traditional fiduciary and strategic work. It introduces a critical third dimension of effective trusteeship: generative governance. It serves as both a resource of fresh approaches to familiar territory and a lucid guide to significant new territory. It provides a road map that leads nonprofit trustees and executives to governance as leadership.
Power and Love: A Theory and Practice of Social Change, Adam Kahane
For 20 years, Kahane worked around the world on many tough and vital challenges: food security, health care, economic development, judicial reform, peacemaking, and climate change. In this extraordinary book, he draws on this experience to delve deeply into the dual natures of both power and love, exploring their subtle and intricate interplay. With disarming honesty, Kahane relates how, through trial and error, he learned to balance them and offers practical guidance for how others can learn that balance as well.
Chapter 12: Conservation and the Environment
Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge, and the Teachings of Plants, Robin Wall Kimmerer
This is an inspired weaving of indigenous knowledge, plant science, and personal narrative from a botanist, distinguished science professor, and Native American. Kimmerer makes a central argument: awakening the wider ecological consciousness requires acknowledging and celebrating our reciprocal relationship with the world. Once we begin to listen for the languages of other beings, we can start to understand the innumerable life-giving gifts the world provides us and learn to offer our thanks, our care, and our own gifts in return. And she captures beauty all along the way—the images of giant cedars and wild strawberries, a forest in the rain, and a meadow of fragrant sweetgrass.
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The Wolverine Way, Douglas Chadwick
The Wolverine Way reveals the natural history of this species and the forces that threaten its future, engagingly told by Douglas Chadwick, who volunteered with the Glacier Wolverine Project. This five-year study in Glacier National Park—which involved dealing with blizzards, grizzlies, sheer mountain walls, and other daily challenges to survival—uncovered missing information about the wolverine’s habitat, social structure, and reproduction habits. Wolverines, according to Chadwick, are the land equivalent of polar bears regarding the impacts of global warming. The plight of wolverines adds to the call for wildlife corridors that connect existing habitats.
American Wolf: A True Story of Survival and Obsession in the West, Nate Blakeslee
With novelistic detail, Blakeslee tells the gripping story of wolves. Once abundant in North America, these majestic creatures were hunted to near extinction in the lower 48 states by the 1920s. But in recent decades, conservationists have brought wolves back to the Rockies, igniting a battle over the very soul of the West. Following one pack, American Wolf describes their challenges on all fronts: by hunters, who compete with wolves for the elk they both prize; by cattle ranchers who are losing livestock and have the ear of politicians; and by other Yellowstone wolves who are vying for control of the park’s stunningly beautiful Lamar Valley. Blakeslee tells a larger story about the ongoing cultural clash in the West—between those fighting for a vanishing way of life and those committed to restoring one of the country’s most iconic landscapes.
Coyote America: A Natural and Supernatural History, Dan Flores
Flores does more than just shed light on the legend; he explores five million years of biological history that led up to the evolution of the modern coyote and details the unique versatility of an animal that has continued to thrive despite human campaigns of annihilation. Legends don’t come close to capturing the incredible story of the coyote. In the face of centuries of campaigns of annihilation employing gases, helicopters, and engineered epidemics, coyotes didn’t just survive; they thrived, expanding across the continent from Alaska to New York. In the war between humans and coyotes, coyotes have won, hands down. It is one of the great epics of our time.
Biomimicry: Innovation Inspired by Nature, Janine Benyus
Biomimics study nature’s most successful ideas over the past 3.5 million years and adapt them for human use. The results are revolutionizing how materials are invented and how we compute, heal ourselves, repair the environment, and feed the world. Benyus takes readers into the lab and in the field with maverick thinkers as they discover miracle drugs by watching what chimps eat when they’re sick, learn how to create by watching spiders weave fibers, harness energy by examining how a leaf converts sunlight into fuel in trillionths of a second, and many more examples. Composed of stories of vision and invention, personalities and pipe dreams, Biomimicry is must reading for anyone interested in the shape of our future.
The Sustainability Revolution: Portrait of a Paradigm Shift, Andres Edwards
The Sustainability Revolution paints a picture of sustainability from the point of view of five major sectors of society: community (government and international institutions); commerce (business); resource extraction (forestry, farming, fisheries, etc.); ecological design (architecture, technology); and biosphere (conservation, biodiversity, etc.). Edwards explains a new set of values that define this paradigm shift. He describes innovative sustainable projects and policies in Colombia, Brazil, India, and the Netherlands and examines future trends. Complete with a valuable resource list, this book will appeal to business and government policymakers, academics, and all interested in sustainability.
Cradle to Cradle: Remaking the Way We Make Things, William McDonough and Michael Braungart
Elaborating on their principles from experience (re)designing everything from carpeting to corporate campuses, McDonough and Braungart make an exciting and viable case challenging the notion that human industry must inevitably damage the natural world. The customary advice to “do more with less in order to minimize damage” perpetuates a one-way, “cradle-to-grave” manufacturing model that casts off as much as 90 percent of the materials it uses as waste, much of which is toxic. Instead, taking nature itself as our model, the authors argue, products might be designed so that, after their useful life, they provide nourishment for something new—either as “biological nutrients” that safely reenter the environment or as “technical nutrients” that circulate within closed-loop industrial cycles—without being “downcycled” into low-grade uses (as most “recyclables” now are).
The New Economy of Nature: The Quest to Make Conservation Profitable, Gretchen Daily and Katherine Ellison
The New Economy of Nature brings together Gretchen Daily, one of the world’s leading ecologists, with Katherine Ellison, a Pulitzer Prize–winning journalist, to offer an engaging and informative look at a new “new economy”—a system recognizing the economic value of natural systems and the potential profits in protecting them. Through engaging stories from around the world, the authors introduce readers to a diverse group of people pioneering new approaches to conservation. The authors describe the dynamic interplay of science, economics, business, and politics in establishing these new approaches and examine what will be needed to create successful models and lasting institutions for conservation.
Let There Be Water: Israel’s Solution for a Water-Starved World, Seth Siegel
Based on meticulous research and hundreds of interviews, Let There Be Water reveals the methods and techniques of the often offbeat inventors who enabled Israel to lead the world in cutting-edge water technology. Siegel gives an inspiring account of the vision and sacrifice of a nation and people that have long made water security a top priority. Despite scant natural water resources, a rapidly growing population and economy, and often hostile neighbors, Israel has consistently jumped ahead of the water innovation curve to ensure a dynamic, vital future for itself. As every day brings urgent reports of growing water shortages around the world, there is no time to lose in the search for solutions.
The Ecology of Commerce: A Declaration of Sustainability, Paul Hawken
Hawken’s impassioned argument is that business both causes the most egregious abuses of the environment and, crucially, holds the most potential for solving our sustainability problems. The Ecology of Commerce presents a compelling vision of the restorative (rather than destructive) economy we must create, centered on eight imperatives: reduce energy carbon emissions 80 percent by 2030 and total natural resource usage 80 percent by 2050; provide secure, stable, and meaningful employment to people everywhere; be self-organizing rather than regulated or morally mandated; honor market principles; restore habitats, ecosystems, and societies to their optimum; rely on current income; be fun and engaging; and strive for an aesthetic outcome.
Awakening Earth: Exploring the Evolution of Human Culture and Consciousness, Duane Elgin
Bringing together views from science and spirituality, East and West, the practical and the visionary, Elgin presents a balanced picture of human evolution—and explores three additional stages of development that must still be realized if we are to become a planetary civilization that can endure into the distant future.
The Future of Life, Edward Wilson
Wilson, one of the world’s most important scientists, assesses the precarious state of our environment, examining the mass extinctions occurring in our time and the natural treasures we are about to lose forever. Yet, rather than trumpeting doomsday prophecies, he spells out a specific plan to save our world while there is still time. His vision is a hopeful one, as economically sound as it is environmentally necessary. Eloquent, practical, and wise, this book should be read and studied by anyone concerned about the fate of the natural world.
Diet for a New America: How Your Food Choices Affect Your Health, Happiness, and the Future of Life on Earth, John Robbins
Diet for a New America is the most comprehensive argument for a vegetarian lifestyle ever published. Eloquently, evocatively, and entertainingly, Robbins examines the food we currently buy and eat in the United States and the moral, economic, and emotional price we pay for it. He looks hard at our dependence on animals for food and the inhumane conditions these animals are raised in. He challenges the belief that consuming meat is a requirement for health by pointing out the vastly increased rate of disease caused by pesticides, hormones, additives, and other chemicals now a routine part of our food production. Robbins concludes that consuming the resources necessary to produce meat is a significant factor in our ecological crisis.
Chapter 13: Evolving—Aging with Soul
Switch: How to Change Things When Change Is Hard, Chip Heath and Dan Heath
Why is it so hard to make lasting changes in our companies, communities, and lives? Switch shows that successful changes follow a pattern you can use to make the changes that matter to you, whether your interest is in changing the world or changing your waistline.
Chapter 14: Gaining Wisdom
Becoming Wise: An Inquiry into the Mystery and Art of Living, Krista Tippett
In Becoming Wise, Krista Tippett has created a master class on living in a fractured world. Fracture, she says, is not the whole story of our time. The enduring question of what it means to be human has become inextricable from the challenge of who we are to one another. She insists on the possibility of personal depth, nurtured by science and “spiritual technologies,” with civility and love as muscular public practice. This book is for people who want to take up the great questions of our time with imagination and courage to nurture new realities in the spaces we inhabit, doing so expectantly and with joy.
What I Wish I Knew When I Was 20: A Crash Course on Making Your Place in the World, Tina Seelig
As head of the Stanford Technology Ventures Program, Seelig shares with us what she offers her students—provocative stories, inspiring advice, and a hefty dose of humility and humor. The book is filled with fascinating examples, from the classroom to the boardroom, of individuals defying expectations, challenging assumptions, and achieving unprecedented success. Seelig throws out the old rules and provides a new model for reaching our potential. We discover how to have a healthy disregard for the impossible, how to recover from failure, and how most problems are remarkable opportunities in disguise.
Ethical Wills: Putting Your Values on Paper, Barry Baines, MD
A comprehensive, step-by-step resource, Ethical Wills gently guides us through the process of creating what can be one of the most valuable and cherished documents we leave behind. Clarifying and communicating the meaning of our lives for those who survive us, an ethical will helps us reflect on and share our life experiences. Those who want to be remembered authentically and for their gifts of heart, mind, and spirit will take satisfaction in knowing that what they value most is “on the record” and not to be lost or forgotten. Ethical Wills helps readers create, preserve, and share this important document with friends and family.
Old Friend from Far Away: The Practice of Writing Memoir, Natalie Goldberg
Goldberg is a foremost writing teacher and completely transforms the practice of writing a memoir. Through timed, associative, and meditative exercises, Old Friend from Far Away guides you to the attentive state of thought in which you discover and open forgotten doors of memory. At once a beautifully written celebration of the memoir form, an innovative course full of practical teachings, and a deeply affecting meditation on consciousness, love, life, and death, Old Friend from Far Away welcomes aspiring writers of all levels. It encourages them to find their unique voice to tell their stories.